_Being Mature_

Alright. firstly im not saying that im matured enough to say so.
i'm just writting out what bothers me.

before i start.
ladies and gents our there,
do you ever thought of this? [probably do]

You : Mummmmy, why can't i be together with ..... i'm already 16 !
Mummy : No, study first. mummy say no means no.
You : why not ??? AHHHH i hate you ,

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this phrase, do you ever think your mom aren't like this at her age ?
even if she do, why doesn't she let you do as same as her ?
think again . think think think .
maybe she doesn't want you get cheated , etc etc.

come on.
when your father smoke, you go smoke and you blame your father smoke so you could smoke ? NO WAY man.
for those who thinks this way. please be mature to think further. *no offense to anyone*

elders are more experience in life than you guys.
if you fail your life, and you're trying to save your younger siblings from doing so.
what's wrong with that ? what do we get ? advising you doesn't bring us benefits.
RIGHT ?

another story.

a baby is crawling himself to play with switch [switch that you plug your charger, iron, etc.]
and when he play with it. you hit his small cute little hand and say "NO NO, don't play with it , it's dangerous"
of course the baby doesn't understand.
and the baby continue playing with it.
you hit him harder everytime. until he dare not do so anymore.
in his mind "why can't i play with it?"
i can't play with it, everytime i play with it i'll get hit by my mummy.
when the baby grow up, the baby finally know why.

do remember, 1 phrase
不听老人言，吃亏在眼前

the elders will NEVER let you fall.

unless the elders want you to fall.

If the mummy give up on the baby in 3~4 times.

for example, the baby won't listen and he keep continue to play with the switch.

the mummy give up and let the baby play until he got shock only he learn his lesson?

sorry man, it's tooo late.

think mature, everyone do something for some reason.

no one will do something for no reason.

best regards to ya.

peace